If we willingly surrender ourselves to the spiritual
discipline of the Twelve Steps, our lives can be transformed. We can become mature, responsible individuals with a greater capacity for joy
fulfillment, and wonder. Though we may never be perfect, continued
spiritual progress can reveal to us our enormous potential. We can discover that we are both worthy of love and loving. We
can love others
without losing ourselves, and can learn to accept love in return. Our
sight, once clouded and confused, can clear and we can be able to
perceive reality and recognize truth. Courage and fellowship can replace
fear. We can be able to risk failure in order to develop new, hidden
talents. Our lives, no matter how battered and degraded, can yield hope
to share with others. We can begin to feel and can come to know the
vastness of our emotions, but we will not be slaves to them. Our secrets can
no longer bind us in shame. As we gain the ability to forgive
ourselves, our families, and the world, our choices may expand. With
dignity we can stand for ourselves, but not against our fellows. Serenity
and peace can have meaning for us, as we allow our lives and the lives of
those we love to flow day by day with God's ease, balance, and grace. No
longer terrified, we can discover we are free to delight in life's
paradox, mystery, and awe. We can laugh more. Fear can be replaced by
faith, and gratitude can come naturally as we realize that our Higher
Power is doing for us what we cannot do for ourselves.
Can we really grow to such proportions? Only if we
accept life as a continuing process of maturation and evolution toward
wholeness. Then we suddenly begin to notice these gifts appearing. We see
them in those who walk beside us. Sometimes slowly or haltingly,
occasionally in great bursts of brilliance, those who work the Steps
change and grow toward light, toward health, and toward their Higher
Power. Watching others, we realize this is also possible for us.
Will we ever arrive? Feel joyful all the time? Have no
cruelty, tragedy, or injustice to face? Probably not, but we can acquire growing acceptance of our human fallibility, as well as greater
love and tolerance for each other. Self-pity, resentment, martyrdom, rage,
and depression can fade into memory. Community rather than loneliness can define our lives. We
can know that we belong, we are welcome, we
have something to contribute - and that this is enough